If you’ve been homeschooling for more than two minutes, you know that it can be as challenging as it is rewarding. We love it when things go well and we almost always try to improve. At the same time, we worry that we’re falling short. It can be a constant struggle between hope and fear in homeschooling.
You hope that you’re on the right track. You fear that you’re not. Which will dominate your thoughts? Needless to say, I think we’re at our best when we focus on hope.
What Hope Means in Homeschooling
Hope in homeschooling is more than just thinking positive thoughts. It’s celebrating what’s going right. And, it’s actively problem solving the things that aren’t. This problem solving almost always involves change.
Depending on the challenges you face, you may need to change your curriculum, your teaching style, your schedule, your expectations, or even your hairstyle (kidding on that one). Change is the one constant in homeschooling. When your child masters one concept, they need to tackle a new one. Then, what works for that child will probably need to be adjusted, or even totally overhauled, for their younger sibling’s learning style.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve said, “I’m tired of growth experiences.” It’s a fact that change and growth are hard work.
Acknowledge this and give yourself a grace period. Some time to grumble about having to grow and change right along with your children. But then, roll up your sleeves and look for a solution. And guess what? You’ll find it.
Change requires hope. And hope ultimately makes homeschooling rewarding. Adopting a hopeful mindset gives you confidence and helps your children thrive. The benefits to your children are twofold – they progress academically and they learn by example as they watch you problem solve and adapt as situations require.
Finding Inspiration
When you’re faced with challenges, don’t be afraid to look for ideas anywhere and everywhere. I find inspiration in all sorts of places. Case in point, this post was inspired by an excellent book we’ve been reading about human migration over the course of history.
Which has the power to motivate you more – hope or fear? Both emotions have moved people across continents.
Human Migration, Judy Dodge Cummings
There’s no denying that fear can be a powerful motivator. But it’s a hard way to live. Consider both your hopes and fears in homeschooling. And then, actively lean into hope.
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